Tuesday, December 29, 2009

moody

2009-12-15
20:13(GMT+4)

Few dayz ago… one of my colleague (Ang Mo) has received the letter of termination b4 he go for his vacation (it’s early notice)…

Today, my fren (from M’sia) has received the termination message/letter from our Commercial Manager too….

No Surprise, just a little bit shock… we knew this will come, but didn’t expect that so early…. We tot can tahan until Feb 2010 wan....

Actually, my fren sudah expected he could get goreng aredi… coz he has serious argument wif our Commercial Manager b4 tat… he is planning to tender resignation after March 2010… mana tahu, its come so suddenly... now leave me and 2 juniors in our department... holly shit.... stresss....

hmmm… after received the termination notice, my fren feel happy n upset at the same time..

happy is becoz no ned to compensate the 23k rental, at the same time can get 1 month salary in lieu of compensation, no ned to face the Manager anymore, n the most important 1 is can go fleeing from this country....

upset is becoz kena goreng.. it’s nothing to be proud of…

hmmm... you may wronged, innocent or discontented with it, but the fact is~~~
u have been eliminated~~!!!


it sounds damn lantiuz, but tat’s the fact… I really do wish he could change his sikap abit lah… sigh….

Well, think of other way… its good thing for him… at least he can go back M’sia n celebrates the Chinese New Year… which I couldn’t make it..

sigh… I will stay in Middle East alone during the CNY…

sigh… no choice, u ned to satisfy something in order to gain something… no pain, no gain… it's fact of life~~

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

72 becom 48~!!!!

a memo issued.. regarding the public holiday~~

HOLLY SHIT~~!!!
matar farker~ jibai~~!!!!!!!

my site closed for 2 dayz only.. we suppose hav 3 dayz public holiday… fark man… now becom 2 dayz only~~!! n 1 day is fall into the weekend.. tat means this matar farker company deducted 2 dayz holiday from us~~!!!

baru 10 dayz public holiday in this country... n now.. they hav deducted 2 dayz from tat...

fark~ !!! i’m so discontented with this~~!!!!!

Monday, November 23, 2009

72 hours!!!!!

oh ya… this coming Thursday until Saturday adalah holiday…

finaly, I hav a break… 3 dayz break, btw~ it’s not only 3 dayz… IT IS 72 HOURS HOLIDAY~~!! a long 1…. muahahahaha~~ I’m gonna hav a 72 HOURS break~~!!! huraay~~!!!

(crazy fella.. hAM sudah becom gila aredi since he ned to work 6 dayz per week... =p )

too bad, officially the Friday is not working 1 (in this country).. n there is no replacement leave for tat… so upset….

hmmmm….. the total official public holidayz in this country are only 10 dayz per yr… n tat is only for the government sector… private sector might be lesser… holly shit…. so little holidayz, I’m wondering these ppl how to survive in this kind of country + environment…???

sufficient holidayz will make u feel happy n cheery 1… otherwise keep work work work… sienz aredi…

I tell u wat… last time the rulers/governor mati.. so many ppl nak bakar bunga api, just becoz ada special holiday…

perhaps.. the kids (might som adult) also wish the current ruler cepat mati… so tat they can hav a special holiday… >.<

Thursday, November 19, 2009

601th

day 601th working in oversea.....

later evening/night ada Year End Function~~ i think we call it 'annual dinner' in M'sia... i langsung tak ada moOd....

aikszzz... i homE sick againz... i miss my familiessss & my frenzzz..........

i hav just set a target date for myself... Maximum another 252 dayz.. i'm going back to my sweetly hoMe~~permanently~~!!!

count down'inG~~~

Saturday, November 14, 2009

How to Buy a Diamond Engagement Ring

Ladies n gentlemen….
today… hAM is going to teach u how to pick a Diamond Engagement Ring~~!!!

Yes.. basically ppl say 4C’s about the diamond… wat the hell is this 4C’s??
actually 4C’s is referring to Carat, Colour, Cut & Clarity...

After I hav done several researches & discussions wif my frens (recently i teman a new fren of mine pergi these diamond & jewelryshops to choose her wedding ring toO).. I found out tat there are another 2C’s (Certification & Cost) ned to be consider when u wish to buy a diamond... these 2 C's are also damn important toO..

Ok~ tuan-tuan n puan-puan… leng zai n leng lui.... let’s learn about these 6 C's: Carat Weight, Colour, Cut, Clarity, Certification, & Cost....


Carat Weight: it determines how large and heavy the diamond is... usually, the larger the stone, the more costly it is –this is so simply becoz larger diamonds are found relatively infrequently in nature therefore it is more valuable... the price of diamonds jumps at certain carat weights, e.g. 0.5, 0.89, 1 & etc.. So one trick is to buy just below the "mark", e.g. buy a 0.95 ct instead of a 1 ct diamond... It will look the same but u can save some serious money...

***pls note tat 2 small diamonds will never be worth as much as one big diamond equal in their weight, e.g. a 1 ct diamond costs more than 2 diamonds of 0.5 ct.... so b'careful when a jeweler talks about "total carat weight"...

Below is the chart showing the "Average Standard Size" for the different categories of the Carat Weight diamonds.




Cut : it is the most important criteria.. Cut is the only one of the 4C's that is influenced by the human hand... the rest (color, clarity, carat) are created naturally as diamonds form in the earth…. the proper cut enhances a diamond's capacity to reflect light and makes it sparkle more…. Diamonds that are cut too deep or too shallow lose or leak light through the side or bottom, resulting in less brilliance ultimately & value… (somtimes the biggest diamond is not necessarily the best... a smaller diamond with a better cut will look better and may actually appear larger than a poorly cut diamond of bigger carat weight)... Diamond cutting is the art of changing a diamond from a rough stone into a faceted gem.. it requires great skill and training… generally, a well-cut diamond will internally reflect light from one mirror like face to another and disperse and reflect it through the top of the stone... the GIA Diamond Cut Grading System categories the cutting in 5 grades (excellent, very good, good, fair & poor) to describe the overall cut quality of a standard round brilliant diamond... Btw how to estimate a cut grade? See ur diamond’s certificate lah…





Color: Diamonds come in different colors from perfectly clear to varying shades of yellow (and other colors).... a lettering system from D to Z is used to identify the amount of color present in each diamond, with D awarded only to rare, totally colorless diamonds (Based on GIA Standard).

  • Colorless: D, E, F
  • Near colorless: G, H, I, J
  • Faint yellow or brown: K, L, M
  • Very light yellow or brown: N, O, P, Q, R
  • Light yellow: S, T, U, V, W, X, Y, Z



I grap this from website… som ppl say tat only experts can tell apart a D, E, F and most people cannot distinguish between D, E, F, G, H (even I) once the diamond is set in a ring. So the best value on a budget may be selecting H or slightly better. Note: Some say to choose "G/H" or better when the diamond is set in platinum or white metal ring settings. Tiffany (the famous dept. store) starts at "I" or better.


Clarity: This refers to internal imperfections (inclusions) inside a diamond. All diamonds, except for the rare "IF" grade, have flaws (small crystals, cracks, specks, etc.). The clarity scale (GIA) is divided into six primary categories:

  • Flawless (F or FL) - no discernable surface blemishes or inclusions visible when viewed at 10x magnification.
  • Nearly Flawless (IF) - insignificant surface blemishes and no internal defects visible at 10x magnification,
  • Very, Very Slightly included (VVS-1 & VVS-2)- extremely difficult to very difficult to find surface blemishes or minute inclusions at 10x magnification, but can be more readily seen at 10x once located at 20x magnification.
  • Very Slightly included (VS-1 & VS-2) - difficult to somewhat easy to find surface blemishes or minor inclusions at 10x magnification.
  • Slightly Included (SI-1 & SI-2) - easy to very easy to find surface blemishes or readily noticeable inclusions at 10x magnification.
  • Imperfect (I-1, I-2, I-3)- surface blemishes or obvious inclusions are somewhat difficult, easy, or very easy to find with the naked eye, especially after being located with 10x magnification.



Certification: If the diamond doesn't hav a certificate, then u r only relying on the seller's word... u r unable to confirm the color, clarity, cut & etc... "GIA" is the most recommended becoz they are very strict and will not grade diamonds than are not totally natural... GIA (Gemological Institute of America) created the International Diamond Grading System in the 1950's & established the standards that revolutionized the diamond industry. hmmm… u can choose other lab to carry out the ‘investigation’ 1.. but they are more “careless” compare wif GIA.. well… a standard GIA report will show a diamond's color, carat weight, clarity, depth, table, cutlet size & etc. n the most important 1 is it is reliable & trustworthy… aiyoyo.. comparing wif a student came out from Howard University and another from UNITAR… u trust which 1? ofcoz lah Howard University… it is branded~~~!!! =p

Cost: This is totally depends on ur budget…. normally the jewelry industry likes to say the budget is ur " 2 months salaries"~~~!!! but frankly speaking.. that doesn't make any sense de lah…. It is depends on budget n ur financial….


ok.. after we go thru all these 6C's... there r som tips for u b4 u select a ideal diamond...

  • try to look for a seller who has been in the buz for a number of years and well knows by the public 1 (so tat wont kena con)...
  • try not to buy a diamond already in a setting.. u cannot see the color and they almost never has a certificate also...
  • plan n do more researches before u buy or look for som expect teman u pergi 'hunts' the 'batu' (stone) lah... hey.. this is diamond.. a luxury thing, u think beli sayur-sayuran @ pasar?? must b'careful de mah... take time to comparison shop and learn....
  • make sure that u compare "apples to apples" (same color, clarity, carats & etc.) when u choosing the diamonds...
  • negotiate, after several comparison plus walking shop by shop.. i bet u sure hav better understanding wat's the reasonable price for the 'stone' (batu) right?
  • free ring~~!!! ask them to provide u the free ring~~ hey.. diamond is a farking luxury stuff.. go 'wut' them to giv u a free ring to set ur diamond... =p
  • hmm.. it depends on u wan the 6 prong ring setting or 4 prong ring setting... Prongs serve to hold the diamond inside the ring.. A diamond has a greater chance of falling out and being lost if a prong breaks in a 4 vs. 6 prong setting... but 4 prong settings also give a round diamond a bit of a square look... so... depends on wat u want lah....
finally, i wish u all the best & get the best diamond for ur money~~!!! n do let me noe if u gonna propose to ur gal~~!!!!!!

Thursday, November 05, 2009

no more alternative Saturday off

early of the morning I received this email…


Guys

We are not keeping pace with the number of changes, remeasure, etc on the job. This is mainly due to the huge number of changes and not because we are too slow. The bottom line is we need to catch up quickly otherwise ALEC is at risk of losing a lot of money. For the month of November we are going to have to forget our off Saturdays and work 6 day weeks. We can see how we are going by the end of November then see what we do for December.

Thanks for the effort you guys are putting in , lets step it up a notch now!

Regards



sigh.. upset'inG.....

no more alternative Saturday off for me.... i think I cannot go for the golf lesson anymore..

Sunday, November 01, 2009

the different between goals & dreams

goals are dreams with deadlines~~

without a deadline, it's just 'dream' only.. =p

Friday, October 23, 2009

no more 咸鱼'inG~ (hum yu'inG)~

my favorite actor~ Stephen Chow say this in his movie... "a man without dreams is just like a hum yu (salt fish/death fish)"

i hum yu for so long aredi... (after i achieved/accomplish few dreams)...

finally.... i hav set a target for myself… an intermediate-range target/plan…

hmm… it looks like quite difficult.. but it can be very easy to achieve also..
me~~ si-hAM~~ wan to be MANAGER within 5 yrs time~~!!!!

lolz~ 5yrs.. now I baru 26 yrs old… hmm.. wanna be manager be4 31st… sounds like mission impossible… especially for us who working in construction industry (M’sia)… it’s not so easy…

but… I believe I can make it.. just depends on I wan o not… btw.. manager buat wat 1?

I tell u wat… 4 M~~~!!! remember this 4 M, then u can be a very successful Manager…
Meeting, Minum, Makan + Main~~!!!

lolz~~ i sure can make it~~ pray for me~~~ lolz~~

Thursday, October 22, 2009

get reaDy ~!!! anytime ~ anywere ~

''Opportunities are like sunrises. If you wait too long, you miss them.'' — William A. Ward

''The secret of success in life is for a man to be ready for his opportunity when it comes.'' — Benjamin Disraeli

Sunday, October 18, 2009

date to tender resignation

yes… regarding the above header.. any idea bout tat?
for me…. there r few ideal dates.. 3rd of June (0603), 6th of June (0606), 16 of June (0616) or 26th of June (0626)….

lolz~

well… the reason y I wan to resign is….. my tenancy contract will expire in the end of July 2010… so.. I ned to think whether I wan to renew it or not.. If I wan to renew it.. then I hav to work for at least another 8 months for my current company to cover the rental, coz I hav to pay 1 yr rental when I renew the tenancy contract.. n tat cost me around RM40k +- ….

my mate is planning to resign nex yr.. not sure bout the actual date yet.. but most probably is in March to July tat period de lah… if he is going to resign on March then higher possibility for me to resign on June… but if he is going to resign on June toO.. then abit jialat for me lah… suddenly 2 intermediate executive level QS cabut from this Site.. who is going to do the works? (so far we hav 5 QS in this Site, 1 slightly abit senior, 2 intermediate level + 2 juniors).. hmmm.. it sound s like we r ‘zou kao’ our manager aredi… leaving a bad reputation (our M’sian reputation) to others aredi… cabut/resign together at the same time….

hmmm….
8 months.. can allow me earn/ save around 100k (included the graduate bonus + deduct the rental) ...
8 months… such a long period.. takkan I will work alone right here for 8 months right?
tat is not easy for me leh… I tell u wat.. I’m driving alone for 2 weeks sudah make me feel damn tired aredi…. Imagine tat I’m going to drive alone, work alone, stay alone and eat alone for at least 8 months in this fark dup country…. aiks…. I feel nak pensan aredi….

human r herd animals… I mana boleh tahan tat… anyone who like to spend time in solitude in their life? I dun think so right? i noe everyone on this earth like to spend some time in solitude.. but not all the time..

or mayb I really can do tat (work + stay alone here).. but if i choose to stay.. tat’s mean I did choose to be solitude aredi... n I really ned to work in solitude for the nex 8 months (after July)...

so…. the chances tat I’m going to quit on June is the highest… so.. ladies n gentlemen… choose a date for me… my ideal date is 616.. tat 1 sounds damn nice…. If I resign on tat day, serve for 1 month notice, then I stil hav 2 weeks in this farking country.. I stil can accomplish or do something tat I wan to do right here… I dun think I will step into to this country anymore… I dun like here also…

stay… not to stay… july 2010??? March 2011??? aiks… I sudah split personality… better dun think toO much… make decision in May lah… now stil hav long time to go….

Friday, October 09, 2009

earthquake~ different of treatment~~

I stil remember.... 1 yr ago…… I had called my mum to donate some money for the Earthquake in China when I read the news from the internet (I’m working in oversea)…

I think... as a ‘chinese’… we should show some care needs to our race… mana tahu my mum really listened to my advice… n she go tolong organize a charity dinner in our village sommore…. OMG~~ my mum…. Really……. I hav nothing to say… =p

it was published on sin-chew newspaper…. The total donation was RM10,720… within one night… hmmm… it can be considered as a very nice result for a kampong aredi…. good job~~ proud of u~~!!!

But this time… our ‘neighbour’ country experienced an Eartquake… I hav to call my mum~~
"You should NEVER, EVER, TRY to donate a single cent to THEM.... DUN EVEN THINK ABOUT IT~~!!! "

I can be very kind.... n very cruel without pity …. it depends on whom I face…. this is me~~!!!



dang dang dang dang~~ m youngest sister cut it from sinchew newspaper, scanned it n email to me~~

Friday, October 02, 2009

goOd fren's wedding~~

hey buddy~ dun alwyz say "TQ plusss hAM so bei mian... come back from Dubai to attend ur wedding ceremony n bla bla bla.... "

i think i'm the 1 who should say TQ... it is a very nice trip + goOd experience for me... thanks for allow me to share ur happiness... thanks for urs invitation + giving me a chance to be ur ''heng dai'' in ur big-Day~~!! I think I'm the worst among them, the most useless heng dai~~ hahahaha...

btw~~ 1st time heard u singing.... twice within a day sommore~~~ OMG~~ Spak really willing to do anything for his soO~~~ muahahahaha....

hope tat I can c the little Spak nex yr lah... a 'lou fu zai' for Spak family~~~

Saturday, September 05, 2009

no sacrifice, no gain....

hey buddy~ STOP complaining & grumble lah~~!!!

I noe u wish to reach the sky in a single bound… but i tell u wat... tat is impossible 1… u hav to sacrifice in order to get ‘something’, no free lunch 1, no such thing….

unless u r farking farking lucky… or mayb ur parents ada manyak wang to let u to do ur own biz or u kena lottery… otherwise.. PLS~~!!! do something lah… dun just stay were u r + keep MARK TIME all the way.. wat the hell r u waiting for?? waiting for the gold drop from the sky??

all gains r made at some sacrifices… usually we say “no pain, no gain” (no sacrifice, no gain)… plan something n try to get the way to achieve it…

Sam Witwicky : 'No Sacrifice, No Victory" (Transfomers)

so.... dun just keep blaming lah.. buddy.... >.<

Monday, July 20, 2009

hmmmm..... women.........

Question:
If there is a restaurant next to your house, the foods r expensive n tasteless, the cockroaches crawl along the wall… r u going to re-visit or return to tat restaurant againz just becoz it is near & convenient to u??


Answer:
definitely , absolutely, certainly u’ll say “ NO~~~!!!"
"I can go elsewhere.. I won’t be so stupid, I won’t spend money on such idiot restaurant anymnore…”


But somewere, U DO~~~!!!
U really re-visit tat kind of STUPID + IDIOT restaurant even u noe it is sarks~~~!!”


this situation could be applied in ur relationship…
u alwyz complaining about ur bf… he is so irresponsible + reat u badly + sarks + curi makan + alwyz cheating + disloyal…

u noe tat the situation will becom worse in future…. he is hopeless….
HOWEVER, u stil wan to go on, forgive him n continue stick wif him….

It sounds like u stil ‘re-visit’ the idiot restaurant right? even it is expensive, tasteless + dirty~~~

Pls lah… LET GO lah… u r a princess & u deserve to be treated well~~
pls... dump him lar...

I noe u r aging now… doesn’t mean tat u hav to be treated like this…
u noe u r aging now.. tat’s y u hav to make decision quickly…. when u found out tat ur bf treat u badly or not suitable to u.. Dump him~~!!!

sometimes, I wondering y women like to be ‘‘abused’’ by the bad guy…
I alwyz wondered y ladies find it difficult to break their attachment to those who treat them really badly toO….

sigh... I believe this is something to do wif a girls’ self confidence… they might hav lack of self-confidence which leads them to think tat they do not deserve for a better guy therefore they pick the bad 1….

zZzZzzz….

anyway, this is a very sensitive issue to discuss....... i just wish u "all the best" lah... sigh....

Thursday, July 16, 2009

shift, switch, shit....

finally.. i'm connected...

i hav been shift frm the building 1 to building 3 (HQ)...
then shift from HQ to Site Office...
n then shift frm Site Office to another Site Office (coz that temporary site office not enough space for me to carry out my works)...

zZzZz...

mahai.. i'm going to move to a new accommodation end of this month...

zZzzZz...

kena pack my things againz.......

zZzZz.....

Monday, July 13, 2009

busy~

bizy... new project awarded...
3QS doing everything.. we suppose hav at least 8 QS 1...
zZzZzzz.....

Thursday, July 02, 2009

stresSSS

damn stressssssssssss

farking stresssssssssss
gila betul...
5th moving to site... now ned to tidy up everything...
rush like heLL~~~!!!

fark.. were is tat farker Document Controller?
zZzzz...

a new environment againz...........
zZzZz....

my ex colleage who working in Tubai today last day (working) in this farking country~!!
zZzZzz...

curse'inG her now...
backpack lah... Cambodia lah...

Curse u KAO KAO~~~!!!!!!
=p

Sunday, June 28, 2009

back to heLL

yayaya... back to work right now..
farking tired~~
yesterday 12.30am reach home, slep @ 1am... then wake up @ 6am....

arrRRRrr~~ they switching........
moving office from this building to another 1.... to cut cost..... it is so messy...!!!

OMG.. i'm sitting in front of the head of dpmnt (HQ tendering dpmt)....
but lucky.. it is a single partition.. no body can kacau me....
n no 1 can c wat am i doing right now..
i can concentrate to curi tulang + curi ayam....
lolz~~

zZzZzzz.... fatty sitting another side...
zzZzZzzz... no body teman me 'keng kai' aredi..
i'm serounding by philipinos.....

:'(

Friday, June 19, 2009

I'll keep my word...

I’m thinking to resign becoz my leave application hav been rejected (pls check “I'm an Idiot)..

I’m damn stress + damn emotional at that time… cannot think wisely.. i'm an idiot...
the thing occupy my mind is ~~ I wan to attend my good fren’s wedding dinner (Sept 2009).. I promised to attend; I MUST keep my promise~~~!!! (if I resign in Aug, I stil able to attend their wedding)

hey ppl…we live only once... marriage also only once in our life(perhaps =p)… I wan to be there… in my good fren’s BIG DAY…

oh ya.. I should tell u guys wat’s the reason he (my manager) reject my application..
becoz we get awarded a Hotel project n we r going to move back to Abu Thabi soon.. so far only 3 QS r available for tat project.. so we might facing shortage of staff to carry on such big punya project.. 1 of the QS aredi applied leave on Sept… we clash in tat period….

Ok… I accept ur explanation… (nyama, I’m so important? Then y no increment + bonus???)

finally, I found the solution (after i clam down)…
I request my colleague to change his schedule…
I offer him tat I’ll bear all the extra cost for tat… lucky, he agreed to change his schedule for me… tq tq…

finally.. I pay him around 1k (extra admin fees & bla bla bla) to change his flight ticket…

p/s: i don't easily make a promise... but once i made it.. i'll keep my promise..

Thursday, June 18, 2009

muahahahaha.. i luv this som much~~

well... 2 "shit" task hav been completed..... i'm free man....
hurray~~ can slep well aredi....


this evening..... my chief estimator (HQ Tendering Dpmnt) call me go into his roOm againz...
during 4pm somthing... almost 'fong gong' aredi...

he ask me, "do u think ur man work hard for this few days?"

ok... againz.. i dun 1 kutuk ppl lah...
i answer, "sure.. they all work hard + work under pressure for this few dayz"

my chief estimator staring at me..
=.='''

"ok ok... early mayb som ppl r quite lazy.. but mayb just becoz of monday blues... after tat.. the 2nd day everybody work damn hard, otherwise we cannot finish the 46 buildings within 4 dayz..." i'm trying to defence for them..... oiiii... stop staring at me lar~~~!!

"do u think they r entitle to get a special leave tomolo? (Thursday)"

(harrr??? )
"yes... definitely... absolutely"
i shout... (nyama, u ask me pulak... )
"wait.... there is another tender to be carry on, right? they ned to giv u the stuff on Saturday?"

"ok.. i'll extend tat until Wednesday.. they can giv me the stuf on Wednesday morning~ 8 o'clock.."

"??? "(=.=''')
"then shouldn't be any problem lah..."

"ok.. u guys hav a special leave tommorow... go tell ur man tomolo off..."

oh ya..... tat 7 QS feel so grateful for it...
nyama... i becom their "god" aredi... althought i keep saying is Chief estimator's decision...
nyama.. the feeling damn goOd.....
>.<

fatty dun hav speacial leave lar.. coz he is not involve for this task... he ned to work alone tomolo... OMG..... whole department baru satu org kerja??? =.='''

anyway.. i think i stil go to work tomolo lah... since i nothing to do at home also.. try to tity out the works... but i'll balik rumah early lah... lolz~~

^^

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

finally.. mission completed~~

finaly.. I completed my task.. within a targeted date..

let me tell u wat hav been done by me for thse few dayz…

  1. I hav to plan the schedule & divide time equally between tasks can be an asset by tat 7 ppls…
  2. I hav to distribute the works (solve out the drawings n distribute to them), guide them, manage, monitor + coordinate wif them..
  3. I hv to standardize the format we r going to use… arrange a short meeting to check their progress + solve their problem.. I hav to make sure all the things r under control & completed within deadline... for the meantime, I hav to check + carry out the changes for 6 buildings… (at the same time, I hav to motivate them toO, make sure everybody r happy + feel conformable wif their works… =.=’’’)
  4. Monitor the progress & report to Superior(my chief estimator)...
  5. In the final phase, I hav to compound all the works n make sure everything r in order…

so stressssssssssssSSSS~~~!!
I hav to take all the responsibilities for any fault caused by them…
I noe u might not understand y i ned to do tat… u might ask, y dun u ~ just push back (their fault) to ur subordinates? let them bear the responsibility lah….

I noe many ppls r trying to avoid to take the responsibility for their subordinates’ fault… but in my mind, a leaders should take tat responsibility… otherwise, why we need a leader? A good leader should be able to guide his/her teammates to be able to perform well… if they did something wrong.. it is part of ur responsibility….

when u live wif the attitude tat u r responsible for everything, ur whole life will change… when u take up responsibility for everything tat happens around u, u’ll start expanding...

I strongly believe tat.. the more responsibility u take up, the more u will expand and grow…


~~~~~EXTRA~~~~~

hehehe.. performance review…

muahahahahaha… matilah u… the most lazy fella…
well… I damn generous aredi… I dun 1 to ‘kutuk’ u 1…
but when I mentioned to my chief estimator (something like AGM in M’sia) tat I think everybody looks “good” + very “helpful”… he knew I talk cock n he wants me to tell the truth.. but I insist dun 1 tell him.. u ‘blow’ me~~~!!??


=p
muahahaha..


then the junior estimator (“his man”) giv us a suggestion, ask me to rank them…
ok.. I rank them from 1 to 7( 5 guys + 2 gals)….
nah… I judge them(ranking) base on their performance (80%) + attitude (20%)…

ok.. good luck to u guys…


haihz… duno ada increment or not…
makan bubur or nasi also depends on this adjustment aredi..
zZzZzzz….

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

I'm an Idiot

I really feel tat I’m going mad when disturbed people troubling me~~~
especially when I was busy’inG to manage 7 guys to rush for an addendum for 46 buildings within 4 days (at the same time, my leave application have been rejected by my Manager, I might not able to attend my good fren’s wedding dinner)…

fark~~!!
againz..it happens againz…
it is just as the same~ wat happening in 3 yrs ago…
I scold a rude word + show my anger in our conversation (me n my dream gal)…
my image spoil againz.. one more time..
(i remember i avoid this gal for almost 1 yr after matter.. n now.. the same thing will be repeated??/)
zZzzzzz....

fark man.. I think I'm not tat kind of fella tat show my anger easily 1… but it just happens twices within this 3 yrs.....

why is this happening to me… againz???
i lost myself n unable to judge wisely... n i feel i like a stupid fella...

i'm so emotional~~~!!!!!

grrrRRRr~~ wat am i doing here??
fark... i duno wat to say.. n how to say... farking panic now...
zZzzzzz.....

perhaps.. it is the time to cut off relations wif tat disturbed fren…
well, it is a little childish but i really dun 1 get mad anymroe becoz of him.... it is enough~~~!!!!

I’m farking down + upset now…

hAM is an idiot~~!!!!

Friday, June 12, 2009

Desert Safari~

well… they say this is one experience u cant miss when in Tubai… must go there b4 leaving this country…

the safari tour package includes Dune Bashing, Sand Ski,Camel ride, BBQ dinner & Belly Dancing…


~ the world is so big~~


~ peaceful & quiet~~


~ enjoy sitting on the sand~~
(opss, it is farking hot~~!!)


~the cars leaving a trace~ people come n go~~


~visitors & visitor guide~



~i wanna write somthing.. leaving a trace in the desert...
the 1st thing in my mind is "cha siao"~~


~2nd thing in my mind is "cha siao bao"~~ =p



~~~yo~~ sea-hAM in desert~~~



~~aikss.. i ned a better camera... btw.. the foOd really..... zZzzz.......~~
(i'm using my hp camera lar~ sombody pls sponsor me to buy D90...)
=p


~~Tattoo~~~~ spider~~!!?? so weird~~!!

(aiks.. i just noticed tat i manyak bulu also..
)
>.<


~~dang dang dang dang~~ spider becom wugui~~
=p

Tuesday, June 09, 2009

i hav been placed on the "ALTAR"~~

U guys remember tat~~!!??
I was complaining bout I hav been requested to lead a small team to carry out the tasks/works by a US fatty (my Chief Estimator)??

b4 tat... i hav been taken over n incharge for some 'shit' aredi..
tat senior QS transferred to site, n he didn’t hand over the things to anybody…
this is so shit~~!! I hav to judge everything by myself… duno my company will suffer lossing of tat o not… but dun worry so much lar... everything loOks fine... =p

n now.. u request me to lead a small team to finalize the shitz againz.....
I keep blaming, ''y me~~!?? there r so many QS(s) in my department wat.. all(majority) also older than me 1… n I’m just temporary staff (temporary in HQ)… y I neD to lead them n not they come to lead me~~!!?? is there any reason behind it~~!!?? grRRRRR~~~''
zzZzZzz..

well… I received the pay slip this afternoon.. n I just noticed tat those “older QS” punya position r lower than me… (no 1der lah...)
=.= '''

OMG~~ they r just junior QS.. not even an assistance QS….
WTF~~!!??? dua (2) level lower than me… holly shit…
proof once againz, the Nationality is damn IMPORTANT~~!!!
but ofcoz.. the races n qualification r damn important toO~~~!!!

PKM…. stresSSSSSS……

I wan increment + bonus~~~!!!
(but I dun1 get "promoted "…)
>.<

Sunday, June 07, 2009

will you choose Love or Bread?

Love or bread?

well…
bread – I’m referring to the daily food necessities --- money…
of course.. it's alwayz ideal to hav them both..
but if u hav to make a choice, would u go to bread or love?
perhaps it is a hard choice for most people….

well, I hav few typical/ classic answers…

sentimental people say,

"i will choose love, becoz money cant buy u love. i’m willing to work hard togeter wif my loved one, becoz u r only happy when u hav love. so what if u hav alot of money and there's no one to share ur happiness wif u?"


"of coz love la.... money cant buy love n happiness...i’m willing to work hard together wit my bf n spend our time happily instead of havin lots of money but he dun love me... "

the more practical people say,
" Bread~~!! :) we r livin in a world were everything concerns money… without bread, u cannot live but without love, I can find it until my end of life & during that time, bread made me living or mayb I can say, i live on bread then find my love…"


"Bread~~!! if I won't have my own love, with the money in hand, I can do a lot of things… I'll never live a loveless life.. that is for sure…"

so… which one r u~~!!??
the practical or the sentimental~~!!??

I tell u wat.. I wont simply discuss this topic anymore.. especially wif gals… this is so frightening… (discuss this kind of topic wif gals?? u cari mati~~!!????)
i’m so sorry…. this is a very tough question my dear... i choose to sit out….
come on, can we stop talking bout this topic~~!!??
>.<

actually, LOVE and MONEY r linked~~!!
without money, cannot support marriage… without love, why get married~~!!?
this is so true~~!!


MONEY~~!!!! Without it, how to SUPPORT MARRIAGE~~!!!???

hAM has stealthily fell in love wif a gal…
I’m try’in to set a goal.. which is getting out of debt, buying a home & saving for my marriage….
as we noe.. . nowadayz the wedding and honeymoon become very expensive… is important tat to set up a budget and find ways to pay cash for the wedding …

I want my wife hav a happy memories when she look back at our wedding~~!!!
this is the only reason y I’m stil struggl’inG in this farking country until now~~!!!

Wednesday, June 03, 2009

Congrats on the quitting~~!!

my msn sudden pop out a msg...
"URGENT~~!! were can find the labour law?? i'm going to resign today... "

=.='''

i receiving a msg when i'm bizy'ing to deal wif the idiot in my company...
(ohh, i have been temperary "promoted" to becom a team leader in my dpmnt.. fark that US fella... i'll refuse to take tat responsibility soon... i'll talk bout it in other post later..)

ok, let's back to the topic...
hehehehe.... after sending her the labour law....

i ask her : " resign today?? finally? =p "
actually she mention 2 me b4.... she is going to quit in Sept... she hates her current company + boss + client...
hAM is think'ing... but now baru early of june ler.... wat's happening??

oh~~his her idiot matar farker boss speeding up her resignation 'process' aredi....
they did somthing damn JB....

muahahahaha..

I’m so happy for her…
but u might say….. she is jobless soon wor… y stil so happy?
hey… u guys sure cannot imagine tat…
we hate this place~~!!!
people hate this place so much n they won't even comment on a post about it~~!!!
but i DO~~!!!

let me tell u~~ once againz…
“ ain't nobody likes the Maddle East, buddy... there's nothing here to like……”

So… I ask… “so, r u going to postpone ur plan? the UK master course…”
She answer me : “yes…”
hAM : “what r going to do now?”
She answer me: “ take a break, go perhentian vacation”
hAM: “ oh…. Envy u…. oiiiiii~~!!! go Maldives lar… since u hav so much saving (not going to UK)”
>.<

Da Fen Ni : "................."
she speechless againz...
(mayb she considering bout it also.. lolz)

but I thing I can guarantee~~ tat this c2pid gal sure singing this song in her dream tonight….
“hurray~~ I quit my job and I'm fleeing the country~~!!” ♪♪♫♪

Congrats on the quitting & the travel~~!!!
good luck out there~!!!

Tuesday, June 02, 2009

bad news from fren...

a fren of mine msg me this afternoon…

he is going to divorce wif his wife…. Submitting the documents to lawyer tomorrow…

finally….. walk until this step….

Sigh…… they used to be a happi couple.. but things n ppl keep changing…

they registered in yr 2006 n their love is death (divorce) in yr 2009…

counting wif my fingers, I noe this couple since 1998.. more than 10 yrs aredi…

seeing their ending really make me upset..

however , this is their decision… I shall respect their decision…


zZzZzzz… I moody againz…. zzZzZz..

Monday, June 01, 2009

dining in the so called 7 star hotel punya restaurant...

i tell u wat... it is not easy to makan in a so-called 7 star hotel (actual is 5 star only)...
u must follow the Rulez Set by the management de....

below is a sample of booking confirmation for makan in the restaurant...

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


From: Restaurants Reservation [mailto:pkm@neiloumei.com]
Sent: Friday, January 32, 2009 13:13 PM
To: Nei Lou Mei
Subject: Confirmation


Dear Mr. Nei Lou Mei,

Thank you for your kind request and the interest shown in the restaurants of Burg Ar Arap.

Further to your request we are delighted to confirm your restaurant reservation as follows:

Nei Hai Soohai Restaurant
located on the 28th floor
Friday, February 30, 2009
2 person(s), 10:00 hrs
Non Smoking only
Kindly be advised that we will be offering Brunch Buffet $$ 495.00 per person and there will be no a la carte service available.

Your confirmation number is PKM 8811967. Kindly mention your name or the confirmation number upon arrival at our welcome center to ensure a smooth access to the hotel. (tolong lah kasih kerjasama, no confirmation no. or booking, u r not allow to go in de... )

This reservation is being held on a guaranteed basis and will be kept as such unless cancelled 24 hours prior to arrival. In the event of a non-arrival in the restaurant or a cancellation being received on the same day, a charge of $$ 300 per person will be charged to your credit card. (i dun care u come or not, u must pay for it.. if u r not cancel the booking earlier..) However the payment is required on the same day in the restaurant either by cash or credit card.

Please note the following regulations in Nei Hai Soohai Restaurant:
  • The dress code in the restaurant is elegant. Gentlemen are requested to wear a shirt with collar, trousers (no jeans) and closed shoes (no trainers) or national dress. (how bout ladies?? naked is ok, but no jeans n trainers pls >.<)
  • Please be informed that the reservation for the above mentioned restaurant does not permit access to additional areas of the Hotel, such as other Restaurants, Spa and guests floors. (toilet also not allow to go, pls bring ur own bottle to standby.. just in case…)
  • Kindly note that photography is allowed in the restaurant, however limited upon managers discretion. Refrain from video recording. (is this cinema ??? or restaurant?? =.=''')
  • Requests for a window table will be noted, however, tables at the window will not be confirmed, but provided subject to availability. (c my moOd lar n c how u looks like, i takut nanti those bird falling down when c ur face... if u r too ugly, no windows seat is allow..)
  • Use of mobile phones in our restaurants is restricted; please switch your phones to silent mode while dining. (i really think this is a cinema~)
  • Due to the high demand of the restaurant we will be holding your booking for a period of 30 minutes from the reservation time onwards. (ok, i'm ok wif this)
  • Please note that there will be no alcohol service before 12.00hrs in the restaurant. (reasonable)
  • According to law in Tupai, children below 21yrs old are not permitted in the bar. (no doubt for tat)
  • Children are welcome for brunch. Children above the age of 7 years are welcome for lunch. Moreover, for dinner children below 12 years are welcome to dine in the restaurant from 19.00 hrs to 20.30 hrs.
  • Children from 0-3 years of age dine free of charge in all the F&B Outlets; 4-11 years of age will be given 50% discount on buffets, a la carte menu and set menus. However there will be no discount on kids menu and beverages. Any children above 12 years of age will be charged full rate. (fair enough)
  • Kindly bring this confirmation letter along with you to ensure smooth access to the hotel and restaurant. (management : u idiot~~!!! no confirmation letter, u r not allow to go in, u MUST BOOK 1st, pls follow the rulez…)

Enhance your lunch or dinner experience at Burg Ar Arap by arriving in style with one of our white Rolls Royce. Should you wish to book or have more information please contact the transportation department on 08 6769 11967 or email pkm@neiloumei.com (Subject to availability) (normally u can get the car easily de lar.. even we say it is subject to availability.. u noe wat? Our guest normally come wif helicopter der… Rolls Royce is too cheap… the local ppl punya punggung tak boleh tahan kereta yg manyak cheap…)

We are looking forward to welcoming you and your guests to Burg Ar Arap and should you have any queries or require further information or assistance please do not hesitate to contact us immediately.

Join us, the Zhok Shui Yu and Rewards Program. From indulgent room upgrades to spa treatments or dinners for two, a host of Awards await when you join us. If you are not a member yet, register online at pkm@neiloumei.com/NeiHaiSeiSooohai.


Yours sincerely,

Zhok Nei Shui Yu

Sales Agent
Restaurant Reservations Department
Burg Ar Arap
Tupai United Arap Emerates
mailto: pkm@neiloumei.com
Tel: +967 8 467 9967
Fax: +967 8 469 9969
Visit us at http://www.ZhukNeiShuiYu.com

Sunday, May 31, 2009

cointsSSSS~

i'm trying to spend the coints as fast as i can aredi..
i dun1 keep them la...
>.<



AED 260++ cointsssssssssss



money monster~~ >.<

Thursday, May 28, 2009

distance & love

"i know distance can be daunting...
but~~don't be afraid ...
dun measure the distance...
measure my love ... "

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

a picture say’s a thousand words part 2

the return of little white~~!!!



little white on the road lohhh... (27.04.2009)

=)

little white sudah return for 1 month aredi..
(i forgoten to post this pic tim... >.<)

Thursday, May 21, 2009

My heart is a boat on the sea

yo~~ thursday~~ i lup thursdaYYYYYYYYYYYYYY~~~!!
becoz friday is weekend~~ tomolo off de~~!!

my colleague r planning to go for sailing lohhh...
he is so exciting for the evening~~



bawa sailboat to company pulak....


mana ada mood to work de?? i bet this fella can't wait until 5pm aredi...

>.<


♪♪♫♪♪ my heart is a boat on the sea ♪♪♫♪♪♪

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

monEy is Only importanT when u donT hav anY~

♪♪♫ ♪♪♪

stop wasting my time
u noe wat I want
u noe wat I need…

or mayb you don't
do I have to come right flat out
& tell u everything?

gimme some Money… gimme some Money~~!!!

♪♪♫ ♪♪♪

Friday, May 15, 2009

Will you marry me?

yo~~ one of my good fren going to make his marriage proposal later...

u JB V~~~!!
wat the fark u wan to step into 'hell' so early~~!!!???

>.<
fark man.. so nervous for him~~
he is going to propose in front of many many ppls...

wish him goOd luck...

all the besT~~~!!!

>.<

Thursday, May 14, 2009

My summer plan…..

if u r thinking of spending a holiday trip in a cruise, u should first consider the places were u wan to go….

finally... i found the “most interesting” cruise package in the world~~
a Somalia cruise package that departs from Sawakin (in the Sudan) and docks at Bagamoya (in Tanzania)…

I found this~~~~

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
SOMALI CRUISES
Fun For The Whole Family!
Most cruises offer a mini-bar~
We offer a mounted Mini-Gun~
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~




the cruise is encouraging ppl to bring their own high powered weapons along on the cruise...however, if u dun hav weapons, u can rent them frm the organizer on the spot…..

here are som of the costs and claims associated wif the package:



Rates

  • $800.00 US/per day double occupancy (4 day max billing).
  • M-16 full auto rental: $25.00/day .ammo: 100 rounds of 5.56 armor piercing ammo at $15.95.
  • Ak-47 assault riffle rental: No charge. ammo: 100 rounds of 7.62 com block ball ammo at $14.95.
  • Barrett M-107 .50 cal sniper riffle rental: $55.00/day. ammo: 25 rounds 50 cal armor piercing at $9.95.
  • RPG rental: $75/day. ammo: 3 standard loads at $200.
  • Mounted Mini-Gun $450.00 per 30 seconds of sustained fire.
  • Crew members can double as spotters for $30.00 per hour (spotting scope included).
"Everyone gets use of free complimentary night vision equipment and coffee and snacks on the top deck from 7pm-6am."

Meals are not included.


well~ the cost is a bit high but it seems well worth n fantastic….


text from the adv:

“We guarantee that you will experience at least two hijacking attempts by pirates or we will refund half your money back, including gun rental charges and any unused ammo (mini gun charges not included). How can we guarantee you will experience a hijacking? We operate at 5 knots within 12 miles of the coast of Somalia. If an attempted hijacking does not occur, we will turn the boat around and cruise by at 4 knots. We will repeat this for up to 8 days making three passes a day along the entire length of Somalia. At night the boat is fully lit and bottle rockets are shot off at intervals and loud disco music beamed shore side to attract attention.”


here r a few testimonials:



"I got three confirmed kills on my last trip. I'll never hunt big game in Africa again. I felt like the Komandant in Schindlers list!"
--
Lars , Hamburg Germany

"Six attacks in 4 days was more than I expected. I bagged three pirates and my 12yr old son sank two rowboats with the minigun. PIRATES: 0 - PASSENGERS: 32! Well worth the trip. Just make sure your spotter speaks English"
--
Donald, Salt Lake city Utah USA

"I haven't had this much fun since flying choppers in NAM . Don't worry about getting shot by pirates as they never even got close to the ship with those weapons they use and their shitty aim--reminds me of a drunken'juicer' door gunner we picked up from the motor pool back in Nam"
--
'chopper' Dan, Toledo USA.

"Like ducks in a barrel. They turned the ship around and we saw them cry in the water like little girls. Saw one wounded pirate eaten by sharks--what a laugh riot! This is a must do."
--
Zeke, Springs Kentucky USA



well~~ this sounds damn interesting~~!!
as u can imagine, I’m trying to call n inform them to sign me up for the package…

I think they offer group rates and corporate discounts toO..... any 1 of u guys/ladies interested~~!!???

pls let me noe if u guys r interested … we can make arrangement for tat… go together… can ask for discount som more…

hurray~~!!!

we r going for HUNT’inG~~!!
pirates~~ we r com’inG~~!!

>.<

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Wat the fark am I doinG here!!!!????

this is sooooOOO amazing~~!!!

3 org… 1 commercial manager + 2 QS….
total annual incomes r more than AED 1 million de…

u noe wat r they doing yesterday??
OMG~~ !!!
they r counting how many numbers of TABLES n CHAIRS in HQ…
>.<

muahahahaha….. I think our dpmnt (tendering & estimating) r going to switch to another building..
my commercial manager request fatty n I go count the numbers of the furniture in HQ so tat he can make arrangement to switch the support team to another building…

fark man~~!!!! wat am i doinG in this country~~!!????

zZzZzzzz………….

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Etihad Guest Miles~~

jeng jeng jeng~~!!

Rewards from Etihad Airway (Guest reward shop)~~!!!
satu kali punya flight (return) sudah able to get this kind of things....
hrmmm.. the flight cost AED 3k ++...
it is paid by company (i'm entitle to claim once per yr de)...

6,944 + 500 points earned (500 is bonus once u sign up for the membership) for last trip…


Dear Etihad Guest,

Thank you for your order placed on the Etihad Guest Reward Shop.
Please carefully review the contents of your order in terms of reward quantities and attributes (size, color etc.) and also verify that your delivery address below is complete and correct. In case of any discrepancies, please notify the reward partner immediately.

Etihad 'Aeroplane' Clock
Reference: 29725-2
Quantity: 3
Estimated Delivery Time: 7 Working Days
Contact Partner: Etihad Merchandise, +971 4 20 45 xxx, etihad.merchandise@xxxxx.com

Belkin Notebook Bag (NE-07)
Reference: 29725-1
Quantity: 1
Color: Black/Cream
Estimated Delivery Time: 7 Working Days
Contact Partner: Ashley LLC., +971 4 397 76 xx, sales@xxxx.com

(ada email for order confirmation de.. damn pro...)



wow... delivery wif UPS sommore.. >.<


3 "Aeroplane" + a Belkin laptop case...


un-packed...


zoOm of the Standard Steel / Aluminum Etihad Aeroplane (cock)~~


total points/miles redeemed for thes items r 6,887 points..


yes~~~ I luv the mini Etihad Aeroplane so much~~ so cute~~~~~~!!!

ohhh~~ aeroplane ahh aeroplane...
fetch me a dream pls... (i wan to be a millionaire) lolz~~~~

Saturday, May 09, 2009

well~ i'm hav'ing the “A”cup~ so what!!??

a friend of mine just told me this “I was considering having breast augmentation surgery….. OK, I decided to go online & do my breast augmentation searching right now….”

=.='''

suddenly she said this to me when we r discussing the topic “ We’re NOT handsome” n bla bla bla ~~

I was shocked~~
OMG… my dear… wat r u thinking???
Y the sizes of the breasts r so important to u right now?
is there somebody said or done something to u??
ur bf started dating a girl wif larger breasts than u?

hAM: urs is so small mer?? come, kasi uncla hAM 'test test' 1st..
>.<

(opss... i kena slap in msn... )
>.<

seriously lar...
hey… u think breast implants will change ur life better?
I tell u wat… let me tell u the facts...
the surgery is very painful de… n the recovery is not quick or easy & tat is risky toO…nanti failed, u hav to cut them both… u wan to say ‘sayonara’ to ur ‘lampu’?? they accompany u sudah 20++ yrs wor…
>.<

n the breast augmentation surgery cost a lot of money de... u mana ada wang to do tat??

tat kind of surgery ada certain risk there & if u dun handle it carefully… it might cause breast cancer too…..
can u imagine they put the silicon or gel inside ur boobs? it is dangerous n nanti itu gel leaking then mati lar u… (i think u ned to get higher health insurance coverage if u really wan to do tat)

if u envy women with big “jug”.. try to talk to them... alot of them wish they could hav smaller one…

u c.. my favorite singer Sun Yanzhi also A cup mar.. but she is so confident + attractive ler… I would marry her.. if she nod her head… (dreaming..)
lolz…

so…. my advice to u is simple~~~ forget bout the fake boobs..
dun worry bout the boobs size.. the figure isn’t everything…

u r good person + pretty... I believe the 1 who luv u is smart enough to realize tat its not about the sizes… (did i say this b4? y sounds like so familiar de?? >.< )

finally, she 'found' back her "confident" n agreed to forget bout the breast augmentation… but…….

wuuuu… :’(

I hav been forced to promise I’m going to marry her if she tak ada org mahu…. but ofcoz.. wif the terms & condition lar… if she really tak boleh marry herself be4 her 33 yrs old bird-day, I hv to register wif her…
=.='''

sigh…. my readers… dun worry bout tat… I just set a reminder in my calendar.. definitely, absolutely, certainly I’ll marry myself @ the day be4 her 33 yrs old bird-day…

>.<

Thursday, May 07, 2009

we're NOT Handsome !!!!

I'm not a handsome man, wasn't good-looking at all...

I’m not cute, I’m not funny, I'm not tall, I'm not strong enough, I'm not a talented, I'm not a well traveled man, I'm not a smart man, I'm not good in social skills & bla bla bla…..

I'm pretty sure tat most women get annoyed & start being mean when they r approached by an average unattractive guy (like me)...

all the gals suka say tat “they only look for personality”~~~

tat is not true~~~!!!
trust me~~~ for them(majority of them) look is mostly what matter...
well, gals r not stupid... if I let u choose, definitely they will pick the handsome one~!!!

its okay! coz humans' first impressions are usually based on looks…
(me also the same >.< )

then macam mana ni??
kami (unattractive guy) tak payah cari gf??
tak payah kahwin karr?
nak jadi monk???

:'(

=.='''

well, buddies..... dun wry…
even we r not handsome or good looking…. it's not like we r hopeless….
u can improve ur personality, confidence and ‘create’ ur own style… handsome is more bout ur appearance/looks, where as being sexy is more bout attitude, confidence & ur own distinctiveness….

so~~u might not handsome but u can be sexy…!!!


i think only "intelligent" gals r smart enough to realize tat its not all about looks !!!

=p

Tuesday, May 05, 2009

Common topic + questions during gathering when u r aging + single…

every time, bila i meet those long time tak ada c punya kawan or ex colleague or cousin …
10 kali sure ada 9 kali mereka akan ask me som same “COMMON” questions….

Let me show u the conversation… a “sample” + “typical” + “common” 1…..


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~`

X : “hey buddy… u r not getting any younger…..”

(me: y sudden talk bout this?? =.=''' )

Me :err… I baru 26 yrs old.. consider middle middle age lar… but ofcoz compare wif those college fella, I can consider as old aredi lar… sigh..

Then, X : “y u stil dun hav gf??? shall we look for some1 for you???”

Me :err… ok de.. noe more female also good de… u ada siapa nak introduce ahhh???

X: “ So what about xxx???

Me: “ mmm… she is not my type lah….”

Y : “ then how about xyz ler??? ”

(Y also ada suggestion aredi… she seem very interested on this topic…. =.=''')

Me: “ hmmmm….she looks quite garang lar…i tak berani tackle her lar… ”

X: “ then abc ok or not? She looks soft soft + Uni graduator sommore.. sure ngam u de lar..

Me: “pls lah..err…. i’m not saying tat she not pretty… mayb som 1 suka her… but not me… hey… u nak introduce gals to me also mesti kasih me ada sikit feeling de mar….”

X : “u must try 1st mar… then baru noe it work or not.. giv her a chance n giv urself a chance too.. nanti ada spark leh…”

Me: “she?? I tak ada feeling lar...”

Z : “ r u gay !!!???”

(Z sudden pop out this question to me =.=''' )

Me: “I’m not gay~~!!! i suka ahmoi 1.. I pun ada ahmoi yg suka de.. macam cde, efg, hijk.. tapi they all got bf aredi… sigh…” (must clarify this 1st, this is very serious punya ''allegation'' >.<)

Me: “well.. I just wan to get a serious relationship wif som1 I really luv.. I dun 1 simply go get a gf becoz I think I should hav 1… I dun 1 simply tries to start a relationship wif some 1 i’m not so sure… I dun 1 ‘pak san tuo’ (un-serious relationship), it will hurt tat gal 1…

Y : “go to hell lar … u r too fussy !!!”

X: “fark u~~!! Wasting my time n air-liur…”

Z: “we dun listen to this farker talk cock lar… he only wan the Lee Ka Yan, Lum Ka Yan & Chung Ka Yan only… ask him go to hell lar.. SP(sau pei) lar... ”

Me: ……………….. =.='''

~~~~~ End of the topic ~~~~~

p/s:

**Lee Ka Yan : Michele Monique Reis ( 李嘉欣) (HK artist) ( Miss Hong Kong + Miss Chinese International + Miss World 1988)


**Lam ka Yan : Karena LAM Ka-Yan (林嘉欣) (Taiwan artist: 1 of my favorite artist..)


**Chung ka Yan : Linda Chung (鍾嘉欣) (Miss Chinese International 2004 and is now an up-and-coming popular actress affiliated with TVB)

just in case you guys don't noe who r them.. =p

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

office


my seat in HQ...

fark dap...
working alone in office until 8pm....
zZzZzzz...

thanks to tat also.. otherwise i wont take this pic...

Monday, April 27, 2009

Bak Kut Teh in Middle east~~~!!!

06.05pm (GMT+4), Friday, 10.04.2009



bak kut teh 'material~~


~~00:00:15~~


~~00:55:45~~


~~01:10:35~~


yo~~ Bak kut Teh in middle east~~!!
Best of the BEst~~~!!!!0

Sunday, April 26, 2009

The Lost Symbol~

yo~~

goOd news for Dan Brown fans~~
here's a some follow up stories about his new novel~~~The Lost Symbol~~

Hurray~~~~!!!
but this book is going to be released in September~
=.=’’’

aiks… long time to go lar.. now baru April lar…
Sigh.....

Well.. this may help tide you over ~~ the Angels and Demons movie opens on May~~!!!

I think M’sia release date is 14th of May… aiks~~ duno UAE ada tak…
>.<

**Dan Brown is the author of numerous #1 bestsellers, including Angels & Demons, Deception Point, and Digital Fortress. His novel—The Da Vinci Code—has become one of the most widely read books of all time.

Friday, April 24, 2009

Chocolate : food or drug ???

how much do a normal ppl spend on chocolate each year?

i just noticed tat i spent too much money in chocolate last yr...
i think i spent more than AED 3k for different kinds and brands of chocolates...

cumulatively... in last ten years also tak ada spend more than 3k in chocolates..
this is so crazy~~~!!!

>.<

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Termination of Retrenchment Plan

nyaseng~!!!
a 4 billion project hav been awarded to my company…
all my colleagues r damn happy after heard bout it…
definitely no more retrenchment liao, tat’s the reason y they r so happy..
(mayb ned to employ more ppl now..)
=.='''

y r they so worry bout the retrenchment???
tat's som story behind de...
actually they r damn pity + charmmmmm also de…
their country r too ‘messy’ + poor… some even in war right now…
now their “rice bowl” secure aredi… tak payah takut anymore... since we hav been awarded a 4 billion project… happy for them also (at the same time, i'm glad tat i no ned to worry bout the retrenchment.. coz i stil able to cari makan in my country, even if i really get sacked..…i noe i'm talented person.. muahahahaha... lansi...)
>.<

Oh ya… after announcing the news… we all have been invited to go to the Barasti Bar @ Mina Seyahi Beach Resort Hotel for a drink to celebrate the award of this project…. tat is cool~~
(nyama, sure spend more than 20k for the drinks aredi)
=.='''

well… I’ll post som pictures later…




hahaha.. i can c my company Logo once/after i masuk the entry..


wow... company 'bao' the upper floor aredi..


private function... no entry for anonymous pls... =p


my colleagues r Q'ing @ bar counter for the drinks..


the view from the top is different...


left side view...


right side view...


i take this pic when i'm leaving.. i luv this so much...
(the sun is going to
disappear frm the horizon as a result of the Earth's rotation..)

nah.... i just go there to show my face only.. i tak suka layan ppl de....
after finish a bottle of smirnoff ice, i pergi dinner lohh...

Saturday, April 18, 2009

crazy~

(nasi lemak + ikan bilis sambal + curry chicken + cucuk udang)*2 + almond jelly + (teh O ais)*3 + (beer + wong lou kat)*2 + potato chips + ice lemon tea = stomachache + 2 rolls of toilet paper + dai se

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

i found som 'small change' againz....

i found another 450 Dirham in an 'abandon jacket"....

fark~~!!!

i think i'm a rich man now..
simply cari / dig also able to find few hundred or thousand in those clothes....

=.='''