朋友，对不起～我不会安慰人~~

為什麼我不会安慰人~~!!??
為什麼~~~!!???????

看到妳說妳很難過，放不低某些人，某些事时。。。我卻一句話都说不出來。。。
心里很想掏出某些話來安慰你。。。
但脑袋空空的。。。思想一片空白。。。
這种時候，我似乎也只能坐在妳旁邊或者在电话里静静的听妳叙说。。。

妳的痛苦，我感受的到。。。
但為什麼我說不出安慰的話？？
有时我虽然不是很清楚知道发生了什么事，但我真的很关心妳。。。

希望他能改变，对妳好一些吧。。。
再不然的话，就分手吧。。。
以妳的条件，还怕找不到人要吗？？
干嘛要委屈自己？？
如果妳分了，我第一个报名~~
=p


(叹气)~~
有时候隨著年紀的增長、人世的變遷，我們經常會碰到欲言又止、不知道該說什麼的窘境。。。
短短几个月内，我经历了......

朋友打電話告訴我，他失業了；
心仪的女子告诉我，她和男友发生问题;
小妹打電話告訴我，二妹动外科手术;
同事的爸爸健康出了状况；
老朋友正經歷婚變，在離婚阶段；
朋友的哥哥突然死亡。。。


面對這些傷痛或難堪，我可以做些什么？
我能幫上什麼忙？
應該怎样幫忙？
怎樣幫忙才有效？
要幫到什麼樣的程度？

我不知道，我真的不知道。。。不知所措。。。我。。。真的很慚愧。。。

我人在海外，也不知可以为你们做些什么。。。,
我感到万分难过，可是絞盡腦汁，就是不能在適當的時機，說些適當的話或做些適當的事来安慰你们。。。可是我会发自内心的为你们祈祷。。。

朋友～很对不起～～!!! 我不会说话，我只能聆聽。。。
(虽然，我觉得这很肉麻 + 娘 + 白痴)
但我發自內心的祝福~~愿~我所有的家人 朋友 平安健康～永远 快乐～



20th March 2009
translated to english version~~~ as Tina’s wish~~

SORRY to my frens~~ i really duno how to comfort ppl~~~

Sometimes I’m thinking “ y I duno how to comfort people ~~!!??”
Why ~~~!!???????

I wish to say some words to comfort u…
However, my brain is empty n I hav no idea wat to say…
Such times, wat can I do is just sitting next to u or listen to you quietly on the phone…

my frens, I can feel ur pain and understand bour ur feelings too. . .
But I just cant pull out some comforting word…
sometimes, though I’m not really aware wat is happening… but I am really concerned bout u guys…. Just becoz my face farking ‘cool’, but it doesn’t mean I dun care..
I just duno the way to express my feeling to u…
I noe I’m sarks…


(Sigh) ~ ~
sometimes with the growth of older, we often encounter the problem of facing som kind of situation ‘‘duno wat to say’’…
in the past 3 months, I experienced……

• my fren called me to tell me tat he is unemployed;
• the lady i suka told me tat she facing som problem wif her bf;
• my youngest sis sudden call me, my 2nd sis going to hav minor surgery;
• my colleague’s father sick (I think quite serious);
• an old friend is having problem wif his wife(my fren too), divorce stage;
• my fren’s brother died suddenly…

facing of such pain and embarrassment, wat can I do?
wat can I do?
how shall I do?
how to help them effectively?

I duno, I really duno….. wat to do….. I feel so…. ashamed…. n guilty…
sometimes, I do feel upset by listening wat is happening to u guys…
it sounds so lame, but I really dun noe else to do or say...
I just duno how to say some appropriate words, or do som appropriate thing to comfort u at the right time… but no doubt, I’ll pray for u….


so frens~~~ I’m so sorry~~~
I duno how to ‘’speak’’, I can only listen. . .
in the end, I would like to wish all my frens and family living in health n forever happiness ~
(although I think this is very idiot + sounds pussy)
but I really mean tat…